5/2/2015 1:05 PM
Love all the replies about life is important. I can attest to that, I know I'm working for below market value, try to do my best for our golfers, but also enjoy some great benefits.
It has been an interesting year as our only boy has gone through his senior year, and for any of my Facebook or Twitter friends know we have had a blast with his (our) band activities. I was able to attend every activity except for a football game (actually I didn't mind that as I spent some great times with superintendent friends, GCSAA friends and Bayer with the PHA) and would have missed a competition that got snowed out, due to a surgery.
After being off a month from the surgery, I was still able to go to Worlds in Dayton for probably the most exciting trip in our 4 years, getting to chaperone even. All the while our staff at home finished aeration on our second 9. Kudos to them, and we don't have assistants or formen, they knew the drill and with luck (equipment and weather) got it done.
This week I spent 5 days on chemo, still went to work when I could (found out I did to much of that too, but it was my fault, employers super supportive, employees getting stuff done, just was enjoying being involved with work as well). But though this whole process of the last 3 months has shown me, (although I had learned some of it before), to enjoy work one needs to enjoy life, I wouldn't trade especially these last 4 years for anything, certainly not more money which would be nice as all these activities aren't cheap, but these are memories that are greater than anything. Of course all this comes from being closer to the end of my career and I can say when I started I remember thinking more about a career goal than life. What I have learned is I don't have to constantly be at work, they will get stuff done, especially if trained well, they can make decisions that I might not always agree with when something out of the ordinary comes up, but that is a teachable moment. Of course our margin for error is greater than some.
Sorry for the long post, much good advice from others, just wanted to point out how there are crazy turns in life and try to enjoy it.
For me prognosis great, me and Lance Armstrong I have one thing in common I think. I'm blessed and lucky hoping the best for this person and anyone else having to make those choices.
Mel
Melvin H. Waldron III, CGCS, Horton Smith Golf Course, City of Springfield/Greene County MO