3/17/2013 12:03 PM
Jeff,
You're in a very tough position; but, whether you want to hear it or not, you put yourself in it. You were offered the job and declined. While I understand your reasons for declining the position, you also tacitly agreed to work for whomever the owners hired as the new GM. Going behind the scenes or trying to undermine him is, in my opinion, unprofessional and unethical. I assume you have discussed your differences with him and tried to come to an accommodation; if not, you need to do so immediately. As I see it you have two options: either accept the reality of the situation and support his policies or resign. There are no other ethical options. When we take a position we are agreeing to give our full support to our bosses decisions and policies. That doesn't mean we cannot voice our opinions and suggestions; in fact, we have an obligation to present our side. It does, however,mean that once a decision is made we have the ethical obligation to give it our full support. Our only other option is to look for another position. Hopefully, you and your new boss can reach a meeting of the minds but, unless he does something that is illegal or goes against the owners expressed policies, you have no ethical option but to support him or resign. Do not, under any circumstances, try to do an end run around him. While you may have the right to talk directly to the owner you also have the professional obligation to let your immediate boss know you are going to do so. Good luck, I hope it all works out.
Steve Ravenkamp, CGCS